Love
Love
Your Guide to the Very Best Vibrators Out There
We've got options for all, whether you’re new to toys or just looking for something more fun.
46 slides
By Sarah Madaus and Gabrielle Kassel
Life
How to Make Friends With Other Couples
You might have to look outside your social circle to find The Ones.
By Julia Ries
Life
What to Do If Your People-Focused Job Completely Drains Your Social Battery
These little strategies can help you preserve some energy for your loved ones—and yourself.
By Jessica A. Gold, MD
Love
The Best Vibrators on Amazon That Reviewers Can’t Stop Buzzing About
They’ll ship quickly and definitely deliver.
26 slides
By Kristin Canning
Yes, Sex Furniture Is a Thing—Here Are 33 Functional Options We Love
It could be just what you need to spice things up.
By Sarah Madaus and Gabrielle Kassel
Love
How Bad Is It, Really, to Go Through Your Partner’s Phone When They’re Not Looking?
Sneaking a peek at their texts can be tempting, but we asked a therapist if it’s worth it.
By Jenna Ryu
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Hot mama
How to Feel Horny Again as a New Mom
Remember that you won’t be sexless and covered in spit-up forever.
By Kathleen Felton
Super Soaker
So You Want to Learn How to Squirt During Sex
A step-by-step guide to turning on the water works.
By Erica Sloan
17 Hot Ways to Stimulate Your Clit for an Amazing Orgasm
There’s so much more than your basic nub-rub to try.
By Erica Sloan
How to Try Edging, the Sex Technique That Takes Teasing to a Whole New Level
Drawing out the buildup to an orgasm can be incredibly hot.
By Erica Sloan
Buzz worthy
15 Wand Vibrators That’ll Hit All the Right Spots
Try them on clits, nipples, penises, butts—anywhere you want to feel a nice buzz.
16 slides
By Malia Griggs and Jessica Kasparian
What to Do If IBS Is Shitting on Your Sex Life
GI symptoms always seem to show up at the worst possible times.
By Erica Sloan
12 Strap-Ons That Are Great From Top to Bottom
Including beginner-friendly options and upgrades for experienced users.
13 slides
By Malia Griggs and Sara Coughlin
The Best Lubes for Smooth Sailing Alone or With a Partner
Loved by both experts and shoppers.
11 slides
By Malia Griggs and Sarah Felbin
What to Do If Dry Mouth During Sex Is Really Killing Your Vibe
If your teeth, tongue, and lips transform into the Sahara whenever you visit Pound Town, read this.
By Anna Borges
How to Have Great Sex If You Deal With Chronic Pain
It’s absolutely possible to make your body a source of pleasure.
By Erica Sloan
10 Sex Pillows to Help You Hit All the Right Angles
According to experts and very pleased shoppers.
11 slides
By Jessica Kasparian
Love
What Does ‘Enough’ Sex Really Look Like in a Healthy Relationship?
Is once a week really the sweet spot? We asked experts to weigh in.
By Jenna Ryu
Love
7 People Share How They Discovered Their Partner Was Emotionally Cheating
“She was quick to start fights…and spoke fondly of a coworker.”
By Kayla Blanton
Losing battle
5 Signs You and Your Partner’s Arguments Are Unhealthy
If one of you regularly employs the silent treatment, that’s a problem.
By Julia Ries